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Healingmoon is a 33 year old single woman from Amboy, Indiana, USA.
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Bust your toast rules!!

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That's some rule, that toast rule. It's the best there is. It's one thing to acknowledge the absurdity of other people's rules and to laugh at them; it's another thing altogether to recognize and own the absurdity of the rules that we've made up (helpful hint: they're all made up, some so ingrained that we can no longer see they are Toast Rules). So when a rule pops to the surface, see it for the Toast Rule it is, made up to serve some social norm that is itself made up--or to serve the convenience of a waiter, where "waiter" stands for "person" or "group"--Toast Rules, like girls don't become backhoe operators, you can't eat dessert before dinner, never wear white shoes after Labor Day, boys don't cry, girls don't play tuba, never whistle in the dark, don't take wooden nickels, or marriage is the sole right of heterosexual couples. Made up, made up, made up. Bust your Toast Rules. Because in my little universe, it's always Toast Time.


~Patti Digh